Posts By: Dr. Vik

Is it True??

Not everything we see, read or hear is the truth. BUT, we seem to be “wired” to react as though it is! To maintain inner peace, we must not react to everything we see, read or hear. Introspection must be done if a repetitive topic keeps coming up, as feedback for us to change for… Read more »

Create or Fix, Your Choice

People have the innate ability to create. When we are through creating, we have a natural default, that is…when we no longer create, we “Fix”. So without creating our future, we tend to want to “fix” the present, and that is simply finding out what is wrong and attempt to change it. Even if there… Read more »

We are Powerful beyond measure.

My friend and mentor Tom Mendoza, Vice Chairman of Network Appliance (#1 on Forbe’s list of 100 Best Companies to work for) delivered a Powerful speech at one of their companies yearly sales conventions… It was titled “The Power of One”. All Greatness starts with “One”…one Vision, one individual, one focus, one goal. In understanding… Read more »

Tough times never last…

But tough people do. Looking back on our tough times from the past, we can see that the tough times made us stronger and in most cases, the really tough situations, have allowed us to change course and ultimately, were really blessings in disguise. If everything were easy, there would be no resistance and with… Read more »

From time to time…

We all have noticed that our life is all about putting out fires. Things happens, and they usually happen in 3’s…which is many times, overwhelming. But when these times occur, let’s just all stay calm and handle what is at hand. Because we also know that the smoke always clears, and that our new vision… Read more »

Free really does Cost…

With concern to the “things” in our lives. The fact is, people make things, and usually not for free, at least in the long run…so someone eventually has to pay. But our lives are Free and so are our Choices. Maybe it would be a good idea to cut some costs and throw out some… Read more »

The great basketball coach…

John Wooden said, “You can’t live a perfect day without doing something for someone who will never be able to repay you”. He’s right, we can do many things for ourselves, but until we do something for others, our day cannot be perfect. Yours in “Giving” – Coach

When goals are…

Ready, they are ready. Some of us use the “All or Nothing” in goal setting and it should really be “Better than Before.” But in reality, sometimes when we set a goal, it may lose priority…and we either stick to our goal until the bitter end, or we quit and feel guilty about not achieving… Read more »

Making a Goal is just like…

Planning. We all know how things go in our lives…it seems like we often don’t have enough time to fit things in, or do what we really want to do. But when we set a goal or make a plan, our goals and plans usually work out and get handled. That’s because we have declared… Read more »