Posts By: Dr. Vik

I’m ready for whatever…

But whatever never happens, because I’m ready – That’s the way I roll – How about You? Life’s going to throw junk at us on a consistent basis, that’s just the deal, but when you’re ready – it make no difference what it is, for when it comes your way – it’s not junk –… Read more »

Past, Present or Future??

The grass seems to be always greener somewhere else… You can live in the Past which is over, live in the Future which is not here, or choose to live in the Present…all up to you. A good rule of thumb is: 1. REMEMBER the Past. 2. DREAM your Future. 3. LIVE in the Present…. Read more »

Things don’t happen to us…

They happen for us. When things happen to us, we become the victim, and when things happen for us, we are in charge and it is up to us, what we do with it, or what we do about it. It’s all about perception. Whatever comes our way, comes our way, and it is up… Read more »

Pitching In…

Remember when you were young and needed a little assistance and someone helped you out and pitched in? It was a pretty good feeling not only for you but for the other person as well. We can still do the same thing when we are grown up. Just a little assistance, guidance or pitching in… Read more »

We are Powerful beyond measure.

My friend and mentor Tom Mendoza, Vice Chairman of Network Appliance (#1 on Forbe’s list of 100 Best Companies to work for) delivered a Powerful speech at one of their companies yearly sales conventions… It was titled “The Power of One”. All Greatness starts with “One”…one Vision, one individual, one focus, one goal. In understanding… Read more »

In business, looking at your computer screen…

May let you know the results, in numbers, of what the business is doing, but continually looking at your screen won’t change what you see. The people are what makes up the numbers. So if you want to change what you see on your computer, you need to work with your people. Yours in “The… Read more »

Many times…

We tend to get only focused on issues, which results in a Myopic view of our lives. This nearsighted and narrow minded view, often distorts the whole picture. When this happens, we need to take a step back and take a good look at the whole picture to realize just how great life really is…. Read more »

Romance doesn’t only…

Have to mean turning up the intensity on a love relationship. Romance can be part of all that we do. When we see the beauty in everything we see, we can fall in love with all that there is. Looking at nature can be a beautiful sight, and what ever we eat can be delicious…just… Read more »

People change when they’re ready…

But sometimes we forget that.  I have coached many because they are having a tough time trying to change someone. Like…”I lent my best buddy Joe some cash and he hasn’t paid me back”? Then we get to Joe’s deal…he only works when he wants to, always broke and has filed bankrupcy in the past…. Read more »

Reverse Psychology?

They say…it sometimes works – check this out. Maybe not try to be so “cheery” when you “rise and shine”. Wake up mad at the world, and use this word for everything you do in the morning – “Horrible”. If you have someone else in the house, you can let them know how horrible you… Read more »