Posts By: Dr. Vik

When we shut ourselves in…

From the outside world, whether it is in our minds or in our house, we usually go into a funk. That’s because, when we shut ourselves in, we are only thinking about me, I and myself. When we recognize that we have shut ourselves in and are in a funk, we need to go outside… Read more »

Life is about…

Continuing to learn new things. And it’s all up to us, what we want to learn. Ah, the choices and the possibilities – and it doesn’t have to be learning about things that only help us out, it’s about learning about others as well. And there is no age, research shows us, that we stop… Read more »

Like attracts Like…

Your Social Circle is made up by the people you choose. They are in your “Circle” because you get along well, most likely because you have the same hobbies, friends and interests. Studies show, more interestingly, that the people in your “Circle” are also in the same economic level as yourself. In my coaching, I… Read more »

We may never live…

In a Perfect World, but we can sure make our Lives Great. No matter what happens around us, we have the choice to focus on the greatness around us or the imperfections. Perfection is actually over rated anyway, nothing is perfect and we shouldn’t expect them to be. So if things are perfect, or going… Read more »

Limitations…

Live only in our minds. We may have heard it stated, “Our limitations are self imposed”. Either way, when we use our imagination, and figure things out, we become limitless. There was a show in the 90’s that was called “McGyver”. He always got in a “pickle” but figured it out. Like when he was… Read more »

I already went over it…

10 times in my head. Ever said that to yourself when you are having a challenge? Most everybody I had a coaching chat with, has. What seems to work pretty well is, that when you have gone through the challenge in your head for the tenth time, switch your thoughts towards a solution. And in… Read more »

Tolerance and Acceptance…

Why not? We are all different and not everyone can fit in right from the start…it takes time for both sides to get accustomed to each other. History has shown us time and again, with the not so nice names given to every new generation of a different race that enters our country. The names… Read more »

This sounds like You!

I will take control of my life… Not by storm, but with gentle, yet firm nudging. I will be paving my own road to match my Vision. I am the favorite to win the game that I create. I know others will help, but I will rely on myself. I am powerful beyond measure –… Read more »

Romance doesn’t only…

Have to mean turning up the intensity on a love relationship. Romance can be part of all that we do. When we see the beauty in everything we see, we can fall in love with all that there is. Looking at nature can be a beautiful sight, and what ever we eat can be delicious…just… Read more »

When Leadership is diluted…

Vision suffers. Or is it: When Vision is diluted…Leadership suffers. I’m thinking, both statements are as true as the sky. Vision and Leadership go hand in hand, and one cannot stand alone. Be the Leader of your Vision… Yours in “Thought” – Coach