What’s the Cause? Most everybody that comes to me for coaching have been focused on the Challenge or Symptom and not the Solution or the Cure…that’s because they haven’t found the Cause. Once we find the Cause, we can move forward to the Solution part and start to make a plan to handle the Challenge…. Read more »
Is it really? Sounds like you “own it” when you say that. Nothing wrong with that. We all do “stuff”, but it’s really “how” we do it, that matters most. You can sweep the streets – in lethargic boredom, or in a beautiful dancing rhythm. You can work at your desk – with a heavy… Read more »
We’ve heard it before, with virtually countless generations and billions of people currently on this planet, there will never be another you. May not be a big deal at a glance, but when we really think about it, if there will never be another you, what are you doing to make your contribution to history?… Read more »
Fate, that decides who walks into our lives. That may be true, but what we focus our thoughts upon, also allows the same to come into view. So we can guide which kind of fate comes into our lives, by the way we think. But for those who walk into our lives, it is solely… Read more »
Golfers, Jack Nicklaus, also had one of the greatest “Mindsets” in golf. When he was asked “Why his golf game was so great, over so many years”, he replied… “I always looked at a golf tournament as an opportunity to succeed. while I have known some others that have thought of it as an opportunity… Read more »
Are in every one of us, and it is up to US to make sure they are nourished in order for them to take root and grow. Just like anything that needs care, we are talking about consistency, and not just a once in a while thing. So what are you doing consistently, to allow… Read more »
Challenges, and sometimes we see the challenges of others, and can’t see whay they can’t handle them. It sure looks easy to us, looking at it from the “outside”. But when we look at our own challenges, like losing that 10 pounds, it may look easy from the “outside”, but when they are our own,… Read more »
Is someone who is a bit more crabby than they should be. We can all be a Crabopotamus, occasionally, but don’t want to be one for long. It’s is our choice to be happy or not, so what’s the big deal to look on the positive side of things or “Spin”, the not so good… Read more »
Go where are thoughts are, and have been. So, just look around at your life and you can see where your thoughts have been, because those are the areas that have been receiving your energies and thusly, your attention. If you see good things around you and in your life, keep up the great thoughts,… Read more »
I’ve received a lot of feedback on the “Balance” blog from yesterday and most of it was coming from people having a hard time letting go of work once they are at home. It’s a common challenge, but what works and has worked with the people I’ve coached is a couple of things: 1. Make… Read more »