Irresistible or Irresponsible? When they are irresistible,  it’s probably OK as they would fit in the 20% of the 80/20 Rule – and they probably don’t affect anyone as we are just cutting loose or balancing out. But when they are irresponsible…they are probably not OK and most likely put us in peril or the… Read more »

Facing some of the really big tasks or projects in our lives, it can be daunting to say the least. Just thinking or imagining the time that will be needed to finish it or come to completion, can become a barrier to even start the process. But if we believe it’s worthwhile, we must breakdown… Read more »

Yes…it can help to keep us within bounds when we stray from the middle. But giving guilt to others is never a good thing. Yours in “Self Guilt” only – Coach

A quick fix is the easy route but may not solve the problem. Whether it be be mechanical, personal or in business…you may just be wanting to fix it “now” and even occasionally be tempted to bring out the duct tape…but most problems or “challenges” as we like to call them, need time. When it… Read more »

Everything in nature tends to balance things out and the includes our lives! We probably wish it wasn’t so, but when we really think about it, we never really go up or down for an extended period of time. And thinking back – we all have probably failed just as many times as we have… Read more »

Fate, that decides who walks into our lives. That may be true, but what we focus our thoughts upon, also allows the same to come into view. So we can guide which kind of fate comes into our lives, by the way we think. But for those who walk into our lives, it is solely… Read more »

Also needs a Grand Plan! Otherwise, your Grand Idea, just stays an idea. We can write our Grand Ideas down on 3 by 5 cards and maybe pin them to a wall…then when we get the urge to move it out of an idea stage, write actions steps on 3 by 5 cards and pin… Read more »

Will determine our lives…and what we say “No” to, can have the same impact. The great thing about what we say “Yes” and “No” to, is that it is all our choice. Being careful and mindful of when we use these words will help us keep the good stuff in and the bad stuff out…. Read more »

I have had many employees come to me with unbridled excitement concerning their last years goals. The overwhelming reason for their excitement was the fact that when they went back and looked at what they choose as their goals for last year…they all actually came true and many exceeded their goals!! This is because when… Read more »