Posts By: Dr. Vik

Some of us run away from…

Success and some of us Run away from Failure. In either case, we are running away from something which puts us in the position of reacting, and not in control. Why not Run towards something…then we are responding and it allows us to be the one in control. Yours in Perspective – Coach

Having a hard time getting…

Out of bed? Most likely, it’s starting from us having a hard time getting out of our heads. Thinking negatively, and not taking the opportunity to “seize the day”, and finding something to get excited about…starts us off in a funk and usually keeps us there. Why is it a shame? Because it is 100%… Read more »

What we see in the mirror…

Is not always what others see. We are all unique and beautiful in our own special way. Yet, we don’t always see it. This is because some of us are self critical, and our worthiness or self esteem is usually below the view of what others see. Yes, most people think more highly of us… Read more »

I Thank my Competitors…

My competitors do more for me than my friends. My friends are too polite to point out my weaknesses, but my competitors go to great lengths to tell me all of them. My competitors are efficient and diligent. They make me search for ways to improve my service and efficiencies. My competitors would take my… Read more »

Occasionally, we get…

Out of bed with our “C” game. Doesn’t matter much if we stay at home, by ourselves, and don’t interact with anyone. But those instances are rare. We may wake up with our “C” game but we must leave our house with our “A” game. Why? For starters, that’s like us – and we can… Read more »

If we think back…

A great Leader or Mentor in our lives, never made us feel like we interrupted them. They were always there…to lend a helping hand or a listening ear. It may have been our parents, Uncle or Aunt, coach or a friend, and they were our “go to person”, when we needed some good advice or… Read more »

Are you Proud…

Of your life? Pretty daunting question. But, for the moment, drop the regrets and some of the little things that we all have undoubtedly messed up on, or could have done better, if we had another chance. Step back and take a look at the Big Picture of your Life, by the broad strokes that… Read more »

When do you charge…

Your batteries? They need to be charged, otherwise we end up like a toy with the batteries drained and only do some of what we are meant to do – or at least, do it more slowly. Is it on our time off, or our weekends when we really have the time to slow down… Read more »

Move it, Move it.

There are times when we need to get going, especially when we face challenges. “When the coals get hot, we need to move our feet”, otherwise we get burned. And “When we are playing with Elephants, we need to move quickly, or we get stepped on”. Good things to know, because there are times when… Read more »