Posts By: Dr. Vik

We are all Searching…

For things we have never had. As we grew up, there were a lot of “first times”: walking, winning, and a drivers license was a pretty big deal, along with graduating High School and our first love. That’s why kids are usually more excited than grown ups – new things and new experiences are the… Read more »

HAPPY TO BE HERE

I’m really excited to have the opportunity to have my Coaching on this website.  Initially the goals will be to bridge the gap of all the Zappos employees which are currently in Kentucky and Las Vegas so that they all can experience the incredible results that my coaching has to offer, to help people take their… Read more »

We too often…

“Love things and use people, when we should be using things and loving people”. Yours in “Being Mindful” – Coach

Reinforce Positive rather than Negative??

So many people reinforce negativity without even knowing it, especially when they have an invitation of “How are you?” Many respond to the question of “How are you?” with “Tired” or “Not good” or with some other response or body language that indicates they are not doing well. What this does is focus on what’s… Read more »

The choices we make today…

Will usually affect tomorrow. Some of us would probably not like it to be that way. But the reality of it is…our lives are all made by our choices and they play out in our future. That being true, good choices will bring us good, and bad choices will bring us bad… tomorrow and in… Read more »

Peoples decisions are based on…

Their beliefs. Since what we believe, is a base for our decisions, we can understand that our decisions create our actions, and our actions create our future. So what are our beliefs about our lives and our future? Our we believing our lives and future is not that good, or great? Do we believe we… Read more »

A recipient is a…

Person that receives something. And we are all recipients, every day, in every way. We receive weather, conversation, traffic, work, unpleasant people, pleasant people, information, phone calls etc – we are recipients on a consistent basis. Why is it that some of the stuff we receive, can take over our emotions, and affect our actions?… Read more »

There is an old…

Saying, “If it doesn’t make money, it doesn’t make sense”. I don’t know who coined this phrase, but to me, it doesn’t make sense. Making money can be important, for it gives us some extra choices, but the real choices that matter the most are our choices that don’t cost us a dime. Choosing our… Read more »

Everybody wants something…

But not everybody wants to pay the price to get it. Are you hoping, wanting or dreaming of wanting what you want, and making no effort to achieve it? Don’t feel alone, we all do at times. We just need to change our focus from hoping, wanting and dreaming into planning…and then work our plan…. Read more »

Reactive or Proactive?

Which one are you? Being reactive dictates that you are “reacting” to all that goes on in your life and thus puts you in the position of being second in command. Whereas being proactive puts you in charge of your life, and since being proactive is making the 1st move, other things need to “react”… Read more »