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Occasionally we all…

Get in a Funk, and it’s OK, it’s part of balancing out, just as long as we don’t stay there. And we usually come out of it when we are ready, not when people tell us to snap out of it, that only lights a spark for us to defend the funk that we are… Read more »

Many People say…

“I know” – but not all of them say “I do”. Not meaning the wedding vows – but doing what they know. We can know a lot, but if we don’t put it into practice what we know, it stays only in the what we “know” category. In essence, I have found in coaching, many… Read more »

What Rubin saw…

On a bight and sunny, warm spring day Rubin took a rest on park bench, smack dab in front of the most beautiful scene there could be. A finely detailed, rather large stone bird bath was the centerpiece of his view which  was surrounded by exquisite trees in full bloom. There were birds dancing and… Read more »

What we believe…

Is what we become. Believe you are great? Since your thoughts, decisions and actions come from your beliefs, your great future is created, because what you think and do, is in alignment with your beliefs. Conversely, if you believe you are a loser, your thoughts, decisions and actions create a future of being a loser…. Read more »

When things seem…

Overwhelming and there seems to be no end in sight, we need to trust that nothing goes on forever, and the scales will soon balance out in our direction. I have talked with so many people that have neared their “wits end”, just to hear that just when things couldn’t get any worse, the clouds… Read more »

Have you ever had…

One of those days where you just don’t feel “Top Notch”? It may be because we are a little sick, or haven’t slept too well or maybe that rare occasion where you stayed out a little too late enjoying a celebration or party where you may of been over served? …And instead of feeling like… Read more »

Who do you “hang out” with?

People we “hang out” or associate with can make a difference in our overall lives. And since we possess the freedom to choose, we can choose people that are givers or takers, some one who puts wind in our sails, or deflates them. We also have our own ability to steer the direction of our… Read more »

“Life is too short…

To spend it with people who suck the happiness out of it”. Let’s get real for a moment, our lives attract and repel a lot of things and the gatekeeper is, and should be, our conscious choices. But occasionally things come into our lives through the side or back door without us noticing it, or… Read more »

Occasionally…

It’s OK…not to deal with unpleasant thoughts, people or things. They can be a real distraction. It’s not that we always must avoid challenges or confrontations. It’s just that sometimes we need to get our own deal going, and the distractions of unpleasantness, stops or slows down our progress altogether. So “occasionally” feel free to… Read more »

Every so often…

It’s good for us to be humbled, But not good for us to be crumbled. Being humbled, should be motivation and inspiration for us to get better. We need to understand that there is always someone faster, stronger, more intelligent and even better looking. And when we see someone with attributes, skills or talents a… Read more »