Posts By: Dr. Vik

Back in the day…

A king would rather be feared than liked. That was because he had a captive audience. But today, a King would rather be liked than feared. This is because his audience has choices. You are Royalty…are you keeping up with the changing times? Yours in “Times Change” – Coach

When is the right time?

When we have the mindset that the time for everything is Now, we can get anything done. Putting things off to tomorrow, will not get it done today. What we don’t do today, will be coupled with the things we should get done tomorrow. And over time, we will have yesterdays tasks, and today’s jobs… Read more »

Distracted?

Sure, we all have been distracted before. But, occasionally our focus stays on the distraction long after the distraction is gone. Someone cuts you off in traffic, or is rude in the grocery store…each scenario is short, and they are in and out of our lives in less than 5 minutes. So why do they… Read more »

We can’t do better…

Than our self image…It would be nice, but it just doesn’t happen that way. Our self image governs what we do, and if we attempt to do something that is better than we think we are, we subconsciously know it is better, and we will do everything in our power to bring it back down… Read more »

Experiences have…

A lot to teach, and that is why we should take the good and the bad with a learning approach. We don’t always get things right the first time, that lesson started for all of us when we learned to walk. And experience comes over time…”we can’t put an old head on new shoulders”. Remember… Read more »

The older the berry…

The sweeter the juice. Yes, since things mature over time and with age, they can be harvested to bring out the maximum desired results. But in today’s society, the “McDonald’s” factor of wanting it now and demanding a forced result before it’s ready, often times, makes us “pick it” before it’s ripe. We must be… Read more »

People change when they’re ready…

But sometimes we forget that. I have coached many because they are having a tough time trying to change someone. Like…”I lent my best buddy Joe some cash and he hasn’t paid me back”? Then we get to Joe’s deal…he only works when he wants to, always broke and has filed bankrupcy in the past…. Read more »

Big Week?

You Betcha! Every week is big for us, that’s the way we roll! And in our efforts towards our big week, it’s best that we handle the little things such as cleaning, housework, laundry and all of our other affairs, so that we can focus on our big week. I know it doesn’t seem that… Read more »

Right down the Pipe…

It’s baseball season…and that’s the phrase used when it comes to what the batters want to see their pitch to be – “right down the pipe”. It allows the batter to swing confidently and not be confused by an off speed pitch or a breaking ball that is hard to follow. The phrase can also… Read more »

We are constantly …

Moving forward in our lives. And we can be moving towards opportunity or away from it…all our choice. This is based on our thoughts, decisions and actions that arise from them. So we must me mindful and understanding…Are we moving along a path that will meet very few choices…or many choices? Yours in “Thought” –… Read more »