To spend it with people who suck the happiness out of it”. Let’s get real for a moment, our lives attract and repel a lot of things and the gatekeeper is, and should be, our conscious choices. But occasionally things come into our lives through the side or back door without us noticing it, or… Read more »
It’s OK…not to deal with unpleasant thoughts, people or things. They can be a real distraction. It’s not that we always must avoid challenges or confrontations. It’s just that sometimes we need to get our own deal going, and the distractions of unpleasantness, stops or slows down our progress altogether. So “occasionally” feel free to… Read more »
It’s good for us to be humbled, But not good for us to be crumbled. Being humbled, should be motivation and inspiration for us to get better. We need to understand that there is always someone faster, stronger, more intelligent and even better looking. And when we see someone with attributes, skills or talents a… Read more »
Binoculars, we can really zoom in on what we want to look at, with real focus. But if we start waking while looking through binoculars, we will most likely trip up or bump into anything that may be out of our focused view, but in our way. That’s because when we really focus, even without… Read more »
We tend to get distracted with everything that is going on, and sometimes our energy and focus goes in the same direction…upon everything. What we really need to do is, occasionally call a time out, and see if our focus is on what really matters, or we get stuck on what really doesn’t. Yours in… Read more »
We think a circumstance is…if we have good friends, we can always find something to laugh about. Sometimes that all we need to see our circumstance in a different mindset. And if that doesn’t quite do the trick, our friends can be the ones we have a chat with and let out some frustration. We… Read more »
What we want, just may be a blessing in disguise. If we got everything we wanted, we would just be wanting more, and that isn’t really the best thing for our us. We may even know someone who gets everything they want – more often than not, they don’t have to do much to improve… Read more »
Repeatedly do. You see, our habits, patterns and routines, are soon put into the form of “software” that is put into our subconscious, and is activated when we start to perform the repeated act. It is our subconscious that plays a big role in what we repeatedly do, which saves our conscious brain to deal… Read more »
Not really – Growth comes in cycles. In humans, it takes years to grow and it comes in cycles known as growth spurts, and the in between times, the body is adapting to what has been achieved. In nature, things grow in seasons and not non-stop. In life, we can’t always be growing and taking… Read more »
We all do from time to time. Thoughts precede emotion, but we can always work up some emotion to spark our thoughts. This is what we do in our family: We slap your hands and then rub them together like we are going to start a fire, or we rub our hands together and then… Read more »