Anyone can look good when things are clicking, in abundance or with a tail wind. The time we meet a little resistance, is when the bright lights shine, and the game begins. Many great Leaders get a little nervous when things are going smoothly, as they understand that it is difficult to succeed success, and… Read more »
Sometimes in life, the game is not fairly matched. When this is the case, we need to be mindful not to take advantage nor humiliate the other opponent or team, but rather turn our quest of winning into a focus towards help and compassion. In sports, they call it the “Mercy Rule” or a less… Read more »
There is a big difference in being busy and getting things done. Running in place is being busy but not making any ground, Spinning your wheels is also being busy but not getting anywhere. Do these examples have any resemblence to things that are happening in your life?? If so, you need to put things… Read more »
An exit is… An entry to another place”. Sometimes we are poised to make an exit with whatever we have been doing. Whether we have been pushing hard in our work, or towards something in our personal lives. We may have spent a lot of time and effort in our journey, just to find that… Read more »
Is when we add value to the process, ourselves and others. Take a look back at your week…Did you add value or take? What did you do at work, yourself or for someone else that added value? Many of us, can truthfully say that we did add some value, but in looking back we could… Read more »
Is always the way to go. Many times it feels better, in the short term, to air our emotions and feelings, and really let the other know exactly where they stand, according to us. But when this happens, it burns bridges and narrows possibilities for our future, and we have traded it all for a… Read more »
Yes, in life most all of our opportunities come from everywhere, and if we entertain all of our opportunities and pick the best ones…the more we draw from, the better our chances are to have more to choose from. Focusing on one opportunity can be good, but it doesn’t allow us Plan B or C… Read more »
Doesn’t really matter much in the long run… As long as you are going in your intended direction. Yours in – Your own pace – Coach
It may be a challenge to always monitor your thoughts, but a good way to see how you are doing in the thinking department is to check out how you feel. Since thoughts drive emotions (sorry Freud), just a quick check of how you are feeling will give you a good reflection of how your… Read more »
Nature doesn’t like a vacuum as it disrupts it homeostasis, or it’s balance by the void that is created. So while changing existing habits, make sure to fill in what you are changing out, or the void may be filled with something you don’t want. Yours in Changing Habits – Coach