Posts By: Dr. Vik

The moment we start to…

Count our regrets, instead of our blessings, we have lost the game. Regrets, yeah, we probably have a few, but not enough to count. After all, we are now in the present and we are a product of all that has gone on in the past. And regrets are just living in the past, and… Read more »

Everybody’s “Picture” is Different

It’s called Perception. We all see different things…looking at the same thing. There have been studies that prove this concept, by having people describing what they saw…and the explanations and definitions, all differed. Being aware of this, and knowing that others will, most always, have a different point of view or perception than yours, is… Read more »

Whatever we…

Put up with…we get. It would nice if it were different, but it’s not. Is there anything we have been putting up with that we don’t necessarily want? If the answer is yes, there is no better way to stop getting what we’re getting, than to stop putting up with it. It’s not up to… Read more »

The “Next Level”

Recently, people have been coming to me and have displayed reservations on taking their lives to the “Next Level” with respect to their employment. Maybe it’s the year end reflection, or maybe it’s knowing that the new year is coming up. I haven’t quite figured it out, but it’s definitely a surge in my coaching… Read more »

We are Thankful…

For our part in paying the rent, it keeps a roof over our heads and keeps us dry. For our utility bills, it will help keep us warm with heating and water. For the low gasoline prices, it let’s us have more money for what we want, instead of what we need. For our tight… Read more »

What is the tune…

That keeps playing in your head? It just may be part of the “tone” you are setting. To set any tone, one must create a vibration or “vibe”, with a certain frequency. Does your “vibe” give off energy, or suck energy from others? Do you give off a “vibe” of abundance or lack…or one that… Read more »

Trademark of great Leaders?

They make Decisions. Much thought is put in the process before decisions are made, and they sift through their choices to see what best fits, and is in alignment with the desired results. Once well thought out…there is little second guessing, and a commitment follows. This allows them to move forward – not standing still… Read more »

All of us have…

Challenges from time to time. And what has worked for me, and many that I have coached, is to put the challenges into proper perspective. What needs to be done is to stop everything…and take some time viewing things much bigger than yourself, like the ocean, the forest, the desert or the vast night sky…. Read more »

We never really know…

How far the ripples of our decisions and actions go. But since we are all powerful beyond measure, we must understand that they flow far beyond…just us. How far? Who knows, it’s not the point, just knowing they flow – is reason enough to be mindful of what we think and what we say and… Read more »

It’s easy to be a…

Monday morning quarterback, putting our two cents in, when the deal is over. And it’s even easier to chat from the cheap seats, and saying how we could have done it better, once it’s done. What is more difficult, is to put in our own input while the deal is still going. It’s not only… Read more »