Posts By: Dr. Vik

Structure Dictates Function

At times many of us feel that our lives are not the way we want them to be. Too much of this or too much of that. But remember, we receive what we allow. So, if this has anything to do with your life, consider structuring it differently, after all, YOU are in control. With… Read more »

It’s not good looks…

Money or youth that is the key to happiness, research tells us that, and so does looking around and seeing for ourselves. Some of the most miserable people are the rich and good looking that have their youth. But what does bring us happiness, is when we are working our plan to better oursleves and to help… Read more »

How would it be…

To have someone say “It sure must be pretty cool being you”? Sweet, eh? Well, people notice, not what you do, but how you do it. Whether you drive a bus, teach, or sweep the streets – it’s not what you do, but how you do it…that makes the difference. Do we do what we… Read more »

Who’s Life is it, anyways?

Do you sometimes get the feeling you are not in control? Are you doing things you have always done, that you don’t like…or don’t want to do? Well, it’s time for you to take control and do things your way. For me…I now cut the crust off my bread…never liked crust, but always ate it… Read more »

Maybe the most under rated system…

In our body is the Lymph system? Could be. Not a lot of people know that is is as big as our circulatory system – but since it has no pump, like the heart, it doesn’t get much recognition. But it sure is important. There are so many organs and systems in our body that… Read more »

Sometimes we are dealt…

Winning hands. And sometimes we are just dealt opportunities for a winning hand. In these cases, we just need to understand that it is our choice to figure out what to discard, and what to keep, for us to create a winning hand. Because, after all, if we were just dealt nothing but winning hands,… Read more »

Bring it back…

Or reign it in, if you will. Understand…The Past is the Past~ No need to use your energy beating yourself up because of where you are…compared to where you should or want to be. Simply use your energy to map out a Solid Game Plan to get back to where you belong. Yours in Getting… Read more »

This Chinese Proverb…

Brings luck, but I was told that it originated in the Netherlands. About Money: “You can buy a house, but not a home”, “You can buy a clock, but not time”, “You can buy a bed, but not sleep”. Wherever it came from, it shows us that money can’t really buy what’s important…and if we… Read more »

The Unknown

The unknowns in life are powerless on their own. But sometimes we invite them aboard and occasionally we let them steer. Fear of what can happen, what could happen, or what is supposed to happen are all good warning signs… But make poor travel mates. Yours in “Keep the unknowns in check” – Coach

One step forward, and…

Two steps back? Maybe “Spin it” into “Two steps forward and One step back”? Why not – That’s life. In understanding, that as we move ahead, we have roadblocks and detours that are part of the deal is very important. And an occasional “step backwards” IS part of the deal, so we must not be… Read more »