Posts By: Dr. Vik

We all know about…

Choosing our Battles – we’ve talked about it before…but we haven’t talked about is.. Choosing our battles – especially in our own minds – because the battles that are created in our own minds are usually “created” by us and not real. We all know the deal – we have a constant tug of war… Read more »

No Regrets, Only Lessons…

We are not born with experience, it is created by living our lives and shaped by our choices. We sometimes make poor choices and can either learn a lesson or have regrets. By having regrets, we spend our present and future strolling down “Shoulda, Woulda, Coulda Street” which serves no purpose. Finding lessons from our… Read more »

Look at the “Whole Picture”

Many times we tend to focus on the situation or person without regard to the whole picture. I even catch myself at times…as well as people I coach. One of the main topics I come in contact with are challenges with family members. For instance, the parents get all lathered up because their teenager is… Read more »

People’s decisions are based on…

Their beliefs. Therefore, since what we believe, is a base for our decisions, we can understand that our decisions create our actions, and our actions create our future. So what are our beliefs about our future? Our we believing our lives and future is not that good, or great? Do we believe we are not… Read more »

Keep doing the “Right” things…

Because character is built over time. The easy route and shortcuts are for the lazy, and are the wrecking ball of character. So keep at it, and over time, character is also what makes History. Yours in “Making History” – Coach

The Greatest Joy of Living…

Is the Joy that comes from Giving. Sounds “corny” but it is true. Thinking back, we may first think that our greatest Joy has been when we have really excelled and taken things to the “Next Level” but when we really dig deep, it was the times when we saw another’s face when we gave… Read more »

Putting our Life on Track…

Will allow us to go in our desired direction. And conversely, if our life is not on track, we end up going astray, and maybe to a destination where we didn’t plan on going to. In our day to day life, some of us get consumed with life, work, family and such, which occasionally gets… Read more »

IQ doesn’t Matter…

But the “I Can” does. No matter how smart we are, it doesn’t replace or substitute for the “I Can” attitude. With “I can”, we can be lacking in the “smarts” department, and achieve what we set out to achieve, as we may not know better, and can’t see the obstacles. As a matter of… Read more »

Not Enough Time??

Sometimes it may seem that way, but there really is enough time. You really choose all the things that take your attention and time. Therefore, you have the premiere ability to prioritize what really does warrant your attention and time. What YOU choose will have a direct relationship of the qualitiy of YOUR life. –         … Read more »

A good thing is never cheap…

…and a cheap thing is never good. The lady who invented the windshield wipers with 5 mini blades tried to sell her invention for under $10 a pair – sales were flat. She went to a consultant that said she should sell them for $19.95 – sales took off and went through the roof! It… Read more »