Posts By: Dr. Vik

Tolerance and Acceptance…

Why not? We are all different and not everyone can fit in right from the start…it takes time for both sides to get accustomed to each other. History has shown us time and again, with the not so nice names given to every new generation of a different race that enters our country. The names… Read more »

Junk in the Skull?

If so, it may be time to go on a Brain Diet. To replace the Junk in the Skull, feeding it a diet of Positive items just may do the trick. An appetizer of enjoyment and laughter would be a great start…and reading Inspirational and Positive material could be the main course, and follow it… Read more »

Do you Major in Minor Things??

If you do, it is up to you to change it up. When people Major in Minor Things, it is usually because they are off focus or have no plans or goals in life. It happens in all ages but is more evident in some retired couples…with nothing to do and all day to do… Read more »

Whatever happens…

Control the outcome? Yet since the only thing we control is ourselves, maybe we can be a bit more specific and say…control the outcome and how it effects us. Want to control the outcome in the  stock market and not have it effect us? – Don’t play. Want to control the outcome of your friends… Read more »

If we really want to get something done…

All we need to do, is focus on it. We’re not just meaning giving it some occasional attention, but to make it part of most every move we make and part of our vocabulary. Just like Bubba, in the movie “Forrest Gump”. Where all he can think about is shrimp. He’s going to open a… Read more »

People Love to Hate…

And Love to Love. It’s why the tabloids, gossip magazines and shows are ever increasing in amount and popularity. They lure you in by stirring things up which is done to evoke an emotional response of love or hate and provoke you to take sides. It’s not the way things should be and that’s why,… Read more »

Is your glass 1/2 full…

Or 1/2 empty? It’s really the same thing, but it’s the way we look at it, that makes the difference. The same goes with our lives. We can see the positive or see the negative and view our lives as 1/2 full or 1/2 empty even though it is the same thing. And in looking… Read more »

Sometimes, it’s better to love and lost…

Than to stay with an idiot. It may seem like a terse way to put it, but it will be easy to remember. And it is true with some people in our lives, and for some decisions that we have made. Sometimes it’s OK to change directions…because our first decision, even if we thought it… Read more »

Be kind to your mind…

We get beat up…in life sometimes, with it’s twists and turns. Unexpected detours, delays and obstacles can be de-motivating at the very least, leaving us feeling like we sustained a little bruising and with an occasional “fat lip”. Understanding this, we need to not beat ourselves up in our own mind. We need to stay… Read more »

A “Snap Judgment”…

Sometimes, should not be a “Snap”. Many of us tend to make snap judgments, and just like the concept in the book, “Blink”, our first impression, or gut feeling are often times the right one – but that is only good when the “source” is not from someones opinion or what they say. When we… Read more »