A real Friend…

Is the one who walks in…when the rest of the world walks out.

We all have experienced challenges in our lives, some more than others, and when we look around, we see our real friends still there.

Understanding how real friends have been there for us, the true questions is, “Have we been the one who has stayed around to help our friends, just as they have helped us”?

For what really matters most is that we are there for them, just as much as they are there for us.

Yours in “Reciprocation” – Coach

Whether it be a group, team or family…

Keeping people going in the right direction takes constant steering but should not need rounding up again unless left unattended.

So if you find yourself in a continual round up, you may want to spend less energy rounding up and more energy in attending to the process.

Yours in True Leadership – Coach

The insurance game…

Has been said to have 2 sides…one is bringing in the money and the other is letting as little of it as possible to go back out.

And our lives may mirror the same game where we keep giving and getting nothing back.

Well, “Loophole Vik” is here to say that it might be time for us to change the game back in our favor.

Yours in “Playing Your Game” – Coach

The Paradox of Letting Go…

By yielding, I endure.

The empty space is filled.

When I give of myself, I become more.

When I feel most destroyed, I am about to grow.

When I desire nothing, a great deal comes to me.

From the “Tao Of Leadership”

Yours in “Letting Go” – Coach

When things are…

Black and white, we figure it out.

But when things are “gray”, we seem to put it off for later.

Can’t blame us, we are all busy and have plenty to do, so when we have to take extra time to figure it out – it gets shelved.

OK, can’t put it away forever, we are not living in a black and white world…maybe it’s time for us to take just one of our items in our “gray area” and bring it to understanding.

Just pick at the “gray” pile, little by little, and we can once again have clarity.

Yours in “Little by Little” – Coach

It’s not as bad as you think…

When we go to the Doctors office, we usually fear the worst…the same goes as we muddle over other areas of our life, many times we think the worst.

Initially, this is not negative thinking, it is our innate process of survival which prepares us for the game plan, if things are really as bad as we think they can be.

So once we have made a game plan for the worst, we need to let it go and start thinking positive, because in reality, things usually turn out better than expected, and the continuation of negative thinking does us not good.

– Dr. Vik, The Culture King