The “what ifs” that “could have been” can actually be a good thing…
It let’s us view what happened in the past, where we thought we didn’t quite reach up to our potential and allows us to dream up how we could have made it better.
So it’s OK to think about the “what ifs” that “could have been” for a short bit to create the game plan of how to make it better when your next opportunity arises, just remember not to camp there.
– Dr. Vik, The Culture King